At Ms Jane's house where you can look out of any window and NOT see a car, or cement, or anything besides trees and leaves and her new gardening. It's quite lovely and I feel so comfortable here. We're parallel playing with our computers, companionably. We'll see a movie later on.
Yesterday I spent a quiet afternoon here while she was still at work. I watched reruns and had a pain pill for my arm, so I was quite content. I made her a dinner of roasted chicken, asparagus, and tater tots, and I'd made a pie in the afternoon. Gulp glorp. Yum. Her husband is away so we could lounge around and watch tv however we wanted to. It's my version of heaven.
I'm thinking a lot about change. It just comes running at you all the time, and it's not easy, even the good stuff. But without it life is boring. Balance is needed.