Ambiguity Sucks

I'm debating how to tell Manny that I'm going to NC. Just charge the ticket without talking to him first? Or talk to him about the trip and then charge it? We're kind of broke at the moment but I want to go anyway. How do I justify it? Or am I past justifying things to him? We're still connected by money.

So I consulted the jury duty hotline and they said to call back at 11:30. Eliz will come over at some point in the morning to hang out with me, but meanwhile I have time to do some of the reading I missed from last week and to work on my paper. I have several things due around the same time, pop pop pop right in a row.

It's a complicated afternoon. Usually we'd have two appointment up in San Mat, but since I don't know if I have to go in for jury duty or not I can't say whether we'll go or not. I have the doc on notice, however, and it'll be fine either way. I just don't like ambiguity much. I'm not flexible that way. Ugh.

I watched a Battlestar Galactica episode last night where Starbuck died! OMG! And now I have to wait until the next DVD comes in the mail! Harsh.

Comments

[LaDee]

Does he ask your permission for every dime he spends?

[squid]

Best to discuss it with your ex beforehand. Even though your relationship has changed, even though that wasn't your choice, you are still in a relationship with him plus dependent upon him -- for now. Do what you can to keep things positive. And perhaps if he is not amenable, you could ask your dad.